THINGS TO LISTEN OUT FOR

  • I can only come to a meeting if he gives me permission, he might change his mind at the last minute.

  • I have to be back in time to get his dinner.

  • He doesnít like me doing anything in church that he isnít involved in.

  • We canít afford to do that.

  • He doesnít mean it.

  • He is nice so long as I do what he wants.

  • Iíll lose all my friends if I leave him.

  • I know he gives reasons why I canít come to church, but the truth is he doesnít let me.

  • Donít text or ring me.

  • I canít invite you round to mine.